This blog is created to honour the end of my Nationals Inter-School Canoe Championship 2009 and the end of a Canoeist Career in Junior College. The 1st few post will be dedicated towards the setting up of this blog and will convey my thoughts and feeling over the 4 days event to honour the Sports which I really believe in, fought for, bleed for and gave my life to.
The Secret
Saturday, July 11, 2009 @ 1:12 AM

Tell you all, tell you all everyone a secret.
Here's something I notice which happens to me true for me
People tend to share more things after 12 A.M.
That's a statistical and experimental observation.
However it isn't just this.
From this observation we might be able to induce some reasons
After 12, we tend to be doing less things. Less things might include, less phone calls, less SMS, less chatting with parents and so on. We exclude the case ~ (AFK)
So the attention we can spend on chatting with other people can probably multiply tenfold
So the attention we spend on chatting with someone alone, is greatly emphasize.
When both party focus in a conversation, they will then share things.

If this argument is true, or probably true.
Then even more things can be inferred.
The focus is based on why less secrets tend to be shared before midnight
That people are becoming increasely busy
Or that they have grown used to multi-tasking
When so many multi tasking is involved between 2 person,
There's no mood to share already.

It may apply to you. It may not. But i think the important thing here is, how crucial is multi-tasking. Is it really that essential? or have you fell into a habitual cycle with it. It may have affected you, and the quality of your work and related, but you can still defend your position by saying, I can multi task so it won't affect me! Be honest, be true to your feelings. So actually, I think I'm quite bad a person at multi-tasking. The whole world can criticize me at being slow and unskilled, but it doesn't matter. Cause I know I give undivided attention to anything I do. I may not be talented, nor skilled, but what I have, my skills lies in the ability to give my all to that ONE thing I do. And I think, multi-tasking destroys the beauty in life, no matter how much you claim to be able to multi-task.




The assumption of this case presented works on the fact that everything happens unconsciously. If you consciously finds no meaning in engaging someone with undivided attention, this argument will break apart.